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This might have been ten years ago, back when I still had HBO - I watched If These Walls Could Talk 2. This is a trilogy of stories, each set in a different era but in the same home, and the main characters involved are lesbian couples. The first vignette - easily the best one, in my opinion - was about two elderly partners, one played by Vanessa Redgrave, living in an unnamed town in the early 60s. One night, after coming home from a movie date, Redgrave's partner suffers a fall and consequential stroke, and because she not officially a relative or legal spouse she is not permitted to visit her love in the hospital. She can only sit in the waiting room while her life partner (whom, as we presume through later scenes, had been with her for decades) dies alone.
Of course, it doesn't get better. Redgrave is obliged to inform her partner's next of kin, and fix up the home they shared to erase any evidence that the two women were more than roommates. We learn that although both women paid the mortgage on the home, the title was in the deceased's name, therefore leaving Redgrave's character with no legal right to claim it...unless she agrees to buy or rent from her partner's nephew, who isn't about show any charity toward the "roommate" of an aunt he barely knew himself.
We are forced to watch as this poor woman's life is dismantled. She's allowed none of her love's possessions, as the niece-in-law is likely calculating a yard sale, and her meager pension isn't enough to start over. The ambiguous ending of this chapter leaves us to assume Redgrave must find a cheaper living situation or check herself into a retirement home. Either way, she's lost everything she holds dear - the woman she loves, the home they shared, and in a sense her own identity.
But, you say, it's just a movie, and it's set in the 60s. Surely we've evolved as a compassionate society since then, right? Heh.
By now, you've probably heard the sad and unfortunately true story of two Southern California men, a couple. Harold and Clay were together for twenty years, and Clay cared for his ailing partner. Long story short, their story pretty much played out like Walls 2, only instead of an oblivious nephew Clay had to deal with an uncaring county government. The men were removed from their home and placed in separate nursing room quarters, and Clay was refused Harold's last moments on Earth. Then he watched helplessly as the county sold off both men's possessions without bothering to check who owned what.
Read the official reporting. I'll wait here.
Mad yet? You should be. Now, if you're the type who doesn't support gay marriage and shared benefits for life partners, you're probably shrugging and thinking to yourself, "this doesn't affect me." I say, can you be certain of that? This government saw fit to barge in on two human beings and confiscate their property to auction it off without their permission. Yes, they were gay, but think about it: what's to stop a government from doing this to anybody else? What's to stop a government from deciding a heterosexual couple, together for decades, should be separated and sent to a rest home? If you're not a relative, you likely won't get visiting rights, either. The longer people remain silent, the greater the risk to simple human freedoms.
Nobody - gay, straight, bi - should have to be treated with such cold indifference in this country or anywhere else. Would you want somebody in a suit and clipboard telling you that you can't see your partner, your parent, your child as they are dying? What kind of people are we to allow this behavior?
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